$conn = new mysqli($hn, $un, $pw, $db);
if ($conn->connect_error) die($conn->connect_error);
$query = "SELECT ind_id, fam_id,MONTH(born) mm,DAY(born) dd, given, married, born , photo, died FROM fam_member WHERE MONTH(born)=$calmonth and (died = '0000-00-00') and (born > '1917-01-01') AND NOT ( (MONTH(born)=7) AND (DAY(born)=1)) " . $famsideclause . " order by DAY(born);";
$result = $conn->query($query);
if (!$result) die($conn->error);